Category archives: Mentally

  • Negative or positive image?

  • You know, I’ve thought about many things lately. And I noticed that there are too many people who only see your bad sides. But why tho? Why don’t they see your positive sides as well? I really feel bad about people who can only think negative. I mean, I’m having negative thoughts as well. Everybody got them. But it’[...]
  • How do others see me?

  • In life with social media, everything is easy to influence. That's why there are 'influencers' nowadays. Sometimes it happens unconsciously and otherwise not. Recently, I scrolled through my Instagram feed and thought: 'Hey, how do my followers see me? Because the things I'm sharing are totally normal to me, but per[...]
  • People who spy on their followers?

  • Recently, I noticed that many people spy on their (Instagram) followers. That's freaking weird, isn't it? I honestly don't even know how they're doing it, lol. I mean, I surely know there are some kind of apps which you can download on your smartphone. They'll probably give you some notifications when someone unfoll[...]
  • Coincidence does not exist

  • Coincidence is a very difficult concept. Everyone will experience this concept in a different way. I mean, that's why it's such a different concept right? Honestly, I don't know what coincidence is. And I think no one knows exactly. So let's look at the official definition: coincidence "A remarkable concurrenc[...]
  • What does love mean?

  • Love means something different for everybody. That's one thing that's certain. But what does it mean to me? And why? I think there are different kinds of love. The love you feel for your boy- or girlfriend. The love you feel for your family. The love you feel for your (best)friends. Etcetera, etcetera. "Whe[...]
  • I don't feel like doing anything: how to?

  • Everybody feels like not doing anything sometimes. But sometimes you just have to deal with it. Today I'm going to tell you how you can. ☾ ask yourself Ask yourself: why is doing this a good idea? I mean: perhaps you don't feel like going to visit your family, because you probably don't have cousins to chat[...]
  • Life lesson: changing things

  • In my life as a blogger / freelancer, I learned many (and then I mean: many many many) things. Changing things is one of them, and today I'm going to tell you what I think about this subject. First of all, I want to say that in my first years I wanted to change things, like, everyday. After weeks, I didn't like [...]
  • ☁︎ People do change ☁︎

  • I think we all had that best friend who changed from one to the other day... Why's that? And why me? When I experienced this moment, I could only think of that I was the one who caused it. But of course that isn't true. Problems are never caused by just one person. Believe me. Never. The only annoying thing i[...]
  • ✧ Throw away negative thoughts ✧

  • Sometimes, I feel like having those weeks which are completely negative for me. In those weeks I feel sad, slack and all I wanna do is sleep and being alone. Is this just a teen thing or what?! "A negative mind will never give you a positive life."  I think it's pretty normal to have a dip at times, but it's [...]
  • ❊ Instruction manual for doubters ❊

  • It's very normal to doubt, everyone does it. All you have to know is how to deal with it. And I can understand that this isn't the easiest thing in the world. So today I'll help you doubters a bit. "Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will."  What we all don't want is to drop our dreams and goals. We ju[...]
  • Don't believe everything you think

  • I believe everyone is a bit insecure about their life, it's not only us. It's more than healthy to be insecure about some things, but the fact is: you have to know how to live with grogginess. "Be brave enough to listen to your heart". Sometimes, it's hard to listen to your heart because everything that count[...]