Category archives: Mentally

  • How do others see me?

  • In life with social media, everything is easy to influence. That's why there are 'influencers' nowadays. Sometimes it happens unconsciously and otherwise not. Recently, I scrolled through my Instagram feed and thought: 'Hey, how do my followers see me? Because the things I'm sharing are totally normal to me, but per[...]
  • People who spy on their followers?

  • Recently, I noticed that many people spy on their (Instagram) followers. That's freaking weird, isn't it? I honestly don't even know how they're doing it, lol. I mean, I surely know there are some kind of apps which you can download on your smartphone. They'll probably give you some notifications when someone unfoll[...]
  • Coincidence does not exist

  • Coincidence is a very difficult concept. Everyone will experience this concept in a different way. I mean, that's why it's such a different concept right? Honestly, I don't know what coincidence is. And I think no one knows exactly. So let's look at the official definition: coincidence "A remarkable concurrenc[...]
  • What does love mean?

  • Love means something different for everybody. That's one thing that's certain. But what does it mean to me? And why? I think there are different kinds of love. The love you feel for your boy- or girlfriend. The love you feel for your family. The love you feel for your (best)friends. Etcetera, etcetera. "Whe[...]
  • I don't feel like doing anything: how to?

  • Everybody feels like not doing anything sometimes. But sometimes you just have to deal with it. Today I'm going to tell you how you can. ☾ ask yourself Ask yourself: why is doing this a good idea? I mean: perhaps you don't feel like going to visit your family, because you probably don't have cousins to chat[...]
  • Life lesson: changing things

  • In my life as a blogger / freelancer, I learned many (and then I mean: many many many) things. Changing things is one of them, and today I'm going to tell you what I think about this subject. First of all, I want to say that in my first years I wanted to change things, like, everyday. After weeks, I didn't like [...]
  • ☁︎ People do change ☁︎

  • I think we all had that best friend who changed from one to the other day... Why's that? And why me? When I experienced this moment, I could only think of that I was the one who caused it. But of course that isn't true. Problems are never caused by just one person. Believe me. Never. The only annoying thing i[...]
  • ✧ Throw away negative thoughts ✧

  • Sometimes, I feel like having those weeks which are completely negative for me. In those weeks I feel sad, slack and all I wanna do is sleep and being alone. Is this just a teen thing or what?! "A negative mind will never give you a positive life."  I think it's pretty normal to have a dip at times, but it's [...]
  • ❊ Instruction manual for doubters ❊

  • It's very normal to doubt, everyone does it. All you have to know is how to deal with it. And I can understand that this isn't the easiest thing in the world. So today I'll help you doubters a bit. "Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will."  What we all don't want is to drop our dreams and goals. We ju[...]
  • Don't believe everything you think

  • I believe everyone is a bit insecure about their life, it's not only us. It's more than healthy to be insecure about some things, but the fact is: you have to know how to live with grogginess. "Be brave enough to listen to your heart". Sometimes, it's hard to listen to your heart because everything that count[...]
  • Be the girl who decided to go for it

  • You all know I'm very busy studying these days and you may imagine this costs lots of energy. I think this is the reason why I'm so tired these days. But how to reduce this tiredness? "Fall in love with taking care of your body". This quote inspired me. You know why? Because this quote made me think. Think ab[...]